Thursday, June 14, 2012

When "Success" Becomes Lethal

This past Sunday the New York Times ran a lengthy article about students (high school and college) who use "study drugs" -- ADHD medications like Adderall are regularly sold under the table in schools to help stressed students get ahead. 

This shorter article excerpts poignant testimony of student addicts. Many of their stories follow similar themes: overwhelmed by the pressure from teachers, society, and parents to perform well and be successful, they succumbed to the pressure to enhance their attention with easy-to-get ADHD medication. Contrary to their expectations (based on the anti-drug themes they'd grown up with), the results were instantaneous and positive....at first.  Now, many are addicted and regretful.

In Their Own Words: "Study Drugs" 


I found this student's comment especially telling:
Let me say first off that I take full responsibility in choosing to take Adderall as a study drug. It definitely helped me get good grades during finals, but plenty of students get good grades without it, and I would understand if somebody in my classes felt cheated because I took it.
That being said, the immense pressure put on students by parents and educators has made taking speed a socially acceptable thing. I come from a family that gets disappointed and chews me out for B's or even B+'s and A-'s. My whole life I've been told that, no matter how smart I am, the only way to be successful (see: acceptable) is through academic excellence. Now, would my parents be upset that I've taken study drugs? Probably, and that's just symptomatic of the problem.
I'm sick of the expectation of a “perfect” kid. The parents and educators in this article who express shock at kids using study drugs ought to look in the mirror; they are equally responsible. College is harder to get into today than it was and it is much more stressful and difficult once you get in. Change your unrealistic expectations or take the My Kid is an Honor Student bumper sticker off your minivan.
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I've been at the giving end of that kind of pressure. Teachers know that a push to achieve something beyond what a student believes is possible may be necessary to get some students out of a rut or laziness or low expectations for themselves and moving toward real growth and change.

But I've also been the one pushing students into "faster, higher, stronger, better" when it probably wasn't the best choice.  You don't really know until you see them break, and then you realize "that was probably too much."

So how do we know when to push and when to relax? Many people worry that we coddle kids too much these days. What's the balance?

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The students cited in the NYT article all cite unmanageable workloads and unrealistic expectations.

We need to delve into the definition of "success" in the educational venture, and even consider the purpose of education in the broad sense, to begin to unravel what "realistic expectations" should be in a biblically normative classroom. 

Any definition of success that defines a person's worth by what they can do rather than what they are (character) seems to emphasize product over process. I am more interested in a student becoming a life-long learner, curious about the world and how it works, than what they "know" at any given point.

Put another way -- if our purpose on this earth is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever; if we  want our schools to equip students for Kingdom living -- shouldn't our schools recognize more than just academic accomplishment?
If I speak with the tongue of a Harvard Business grad but have not love, I sound like a clanging gong played by a toddler.
If I gain admission to a top-20 school, but have not love, it's not really worth anything.
If I define success according to academic performance or career goals but ignore the child's own desires and talents, it hurts both of us in the long run.
If I make a student think I am proud of her when she gets good grades and unhappy with her when she doesn't "perform" to the level I think is appropriate, have I not redefined my relationship with her into a performance-based hamster wheel?

It's time to challenge the established 5-hour SAT testing sessions, cut-throat races for scholarship money, and underlying assumptions about the role of a college education as the route to success for the overwhelming number of high school students.

It's time to question the usefulness of worksheets and homework, the validity of the school day chopped into 7 or 8 45-minute periods, a 3-month summer vacation, or the value of the lingering 20th century American curriculum in a 21st century world.

It's time to reclaim a more biblical notion of "success."

Saturday, June 9, 2012

"You are not special"

The following is about an honest, forthright speech by a Boston educator at a Massachusetts high school. What may at first seem unkind and brutal is actually a refreshing gust of reality for these students who will eventually escape the swaddling of their parents and the comfortable cocoon of formal education.

We do kids a huge disservice when we focus their educational pursuits on them, as if we humans are benefitted by implementing overly-self-driven values. Truth is, I can't find fulfillment in myself. I have to work for something bigger than me.

You can read lengthy excerpts from the speech here. I'd like to highlight these two:
 “If you’ve learned anything in your years here I hope it’s that education should be for, rather than material advantage, the exhilaration of learning…I also hope you’ve learned enough to recognize how little you know… how little you know now… at the moment… for today is just the beginning. It’s where you go from here that matters.”
and
“I urge you to do whatever you do for no reason other than you love it and believe in its importance. Don’t bother with work you don’t believe in any more than you would a spouse you’re not crazy about."
Here's the condensed version
And here's the Boston Herald reprint of the entire speech.
 

Changes afoot

Everything worth doing is hard (so my husband says), and writing about Grace-based education falls within that realm.

I would like to think Teaching Redemptively (the blog) already would have filled the Internet with wisdom, but the truth is that we aren't any more wise than the average bear, and teaching doesn't leave much time left over for writing.

But I hope that is about to change.

This is a summer of upheaval for many of us associated with Teaching Redemptively. We are moving on to new challenges, new ministries, new coursework of our own.

As we raise a glass to change, I'm hoping that we'll take time to condense our experiences over the past several years and add to the conversation about how the Gospel should affect schools.

Most of us are no longer affiliated here with NCS, the school which served as a laboratory for our Grace experiences for about a decade. We wish it well, and we also want to clarify that our posts here are not meant to be any kind of official (or unofficial) statement about the school's philosophy, mission, or vision. We applaud NCS and its growth as a Christian school and look forward to hearing good news about it in the future.

But for now -- I'm hoping we'll be able to turn our summertime attention to topics in relational education, Grace-based discipline, mentoring parents and families, and other issues of biblically-normative education. Stay tuned.

BLOG CONTRIBUTORS
Dennis Bills has administrated three Christian schools (all quite different) and pastored PCA churches. He's currently enrolled in a DMin program in Pittsburgh and pastors a church in WV.

Coart & Lori Ramey taught for a decade at a Christian school after working in tangential fields related to education (textbook authoring and library science).  They hope to be involved in teacher training on the college level someday, so Coart is working hard at a PhD in Social Foundations of Education. Lori is 'just' working.

Jack Knipe speaks more languages than should be legal and is fascinated by human geography and world culture. He's headed off to earn a terminal degree in International Education and hang out with lots of people who aren't from around here.

Joey Thames served as the administrator of a Christian school for 6 years, taught public school science for 4, and currently serves as an advisor to Biology majors at Clemson University.